3 Questions You MUST Ask (and Get Answered) If You’re Struggling with Infertility
Infertility isn’t a mystery—ask the right questions, get real solutions, and take control of your fertility.
Infertility can feel like a never-ending cycle of unanswered questions, emotional exhaustion, and frustration. If you're trying to conceive and not getting the results you want, you're probably wondering: What am I missing? Why isn’t this working? Is there something else I should be doing?
The truth is, many women (and couples) go through fertility treatments like IUI or IVF, take prescribed medications, or make lifestyle changes—yet still feel stuck. Why? Because they haven’t gotten the right answers to the right questions. If you’re struggling with infertility, here are three critical questions you need to ask—and get clear, actionable answers on—right now.
Trying to Conceive? 3 Must-Ask Questions That Could Change Everything
1. What is actually causing my infertility?
This might seem obvious, but you’d be shocked at how many women are told their infertility is “unexplained” or given a diagnosis with no real action plan. Unexplained infertility doesn’t mean there isn’t a cause—it just means no one has found it yet. (Don’t worry, getting fertility answers is Crystal’s favourite thing to do)
There are so many potential root causes that impact your ability to get pregnant, including:
Hormonal imbalances – Are your estrogen, progesterone, insulin, and thyroid levels where they should be?
Egg quality issues – Are your eggs maturing properly, or is oxidative stress affecting their development?
Sperm health – Is male factor infertility playing a role (because 40-50% of infertility cases involve sperm quality!)?
Inflammation and gut health – Is chronic inflammation affecting your reproductive system?
Nutrient deficiencies – Are you missing key vitamins and minerals that are essential for fertility?
And if you do have a diagnosis—like endometriosis or PCOS—is your doctor actually treating it, or just brushing it off? Too often, I see women given a diagnosis but zero support on how to manage it (mind blown—but that’s a whole other issue).
If you have endometriosis, is your doctor addressing the chronic inflammation and immune response that could be harming implantation? Are you given an endometriosis protocol?
If you have PCOS, are you getting real support to regulate your blood sugar and balance hormones (beyond just being told to "lose weight" or "take birth control")? This saddly is what we see most often, no steps on actually managing PCOS. We've got you! PCOS is our specialty, and we'll help you tackle every PCOS symptom with a plan tailored just for you.
If you don’t have clear answers to what’s causing your fertility struggles, it’s time to dig deeper. The right lab work, functional testing, and expert guidance can uncover what's really going on and how to fix it. If you haven’t had a complementary session with us, tap here to book before you read any further. Complementary Fertility Session
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2. Am I doing everything I can to improve my egg and sperm quality?
Many women are told that age is the biggest factor affecting their fertility. And while yes, age plays a role, it’s not the only thing that determines whether you’ll get pregnant. The quality of your eggs and sperm is hugely influenced by lifestyle, nutrition, stress, and environmental toxins—things that are within your control.
Ask yourself:
If I have endometriosis, am I actively working to reduce inflammation, since chronic inflammation can harm egg quality?
If I have PCOS, am I managing my blood sugar levels, since insulin resistance can impact ovulation and egg health?
Am I taking the right fertility supplements for egg and sperm quality? (Because let’s be real, not all supplements are created equal!)
Am I reducing my exposure to toxins that harm fertility (plastics, pesticides, endocrine disruptors)?
Am I optimizing my sleep, stress, and gut health, which all impact hormone balance and reproductive function?
If you’re relying only on medications or hoping IVF will “fix” things, you might be missing crucial steps that could dramatically improve your chances of conceiving naturally or increase your success with fertility treatments. Your doctor’s job is to prescribe treatments, but optimizing your fertility requires a whole-body approach—which is exactly what we help our clients do at Fertility Blooms.
3. Do I have the right fertility support system with a real plan?
Infertility is isolating, exhausting, and emotionally draining. It’s not just about finding the problem—it’s about knowing exactly what to do about it. That’s where most women get stuck.
At Fertility Blooms, we don’t just give you generic advice—we create a personalized fertility roadmap that actually moves the needle on your fertility journey.
Here’s what that looks like:
✔️ We help you uncover what’s really going on. We go beyond surface-level testing and look at your full health history, lab work, hormone levels, and lifestyle factors. No more “unexplained” infertility—just real answers.
✔️ We create a step-by-step plan tailored to YOU. Whether you’re struggling with egg quality, sperm health, PCOS, endometriosis, recurrent miscarriage, or failed IVF cycles, we build a plan to optimize your fertility. This includes nutrition, supplements, cycle tracking, hormone balance, stress management, and even the right questions to ask your doctor.
✔️ We give you expert guidance and real support. Infertility isn’t something you should go through alone. Whether it’s 1-on-1 coaching in The Fertility Flow Program or group support in The Fertility Fight Club, we’re with you every step of the way. No more guessing, no more feeling lost—just a clear, actionable plan to help you take control of your fertility journey and get pregnant fast!
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Are You Ready to Get the Fertility Answers You Deserve?
If you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or overwhelmed in your fertility journey, you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: You don’t have to keep waiting for answers—you can take action today.
💡 If you’re ready for 1-on-1 personalized fertility coaching, apply for The Fertility Flow Program and let’s create a strategy that works for you.
💡 If you want expert guidance + community support, join The Fertility Fight Club for real-time coaching, meal plans, guest experts, and a group of women who get it.
💡 Not sure which one is right for you? Book a free consultation and let’s talk about the best path forward.
You’ve waited long enough. It’s time to take control of your fertility journey—with real answers, real support, and a real plan.